Vashoshi(Genjo Sanzo)
Yoshi
?Omae wo korosu (I?ll kill you)!?, ?Baka (Stupid)!?, ?Uruse/Urusai(Shut up!)?
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Post by Vashoshi(Genjo Sanzo) on Aug 17, 2004 2:52:45 GMT -5
 good grief is this really somthing that should be stated on the bored |
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Post by red.yoshi on Aug 17, 2004 8:58:17 GMT -5
*sniff* i loved her.... but i think she loves someone else i dont care if i have a whole life a head of me...
but oh well. must move on ='(
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Post by PinkFloydYoshi on Aug 17, 2004 9:02:38 GMT -5
Well about 3 years ago, me and my ex girlfriend broke up after shee moved away quite far away from me. After she moved away, I decided that we weren't talking and decided to call it al off. I devastated myself. We went out together for 2 years before and it ended like that. You don't want to hear what I found out recently because that ruined me for a good few days... lets just say this, even if she does come back over here, we aren't getting back together...
Women are very odd at showing their feelings. Sometime's they'll just burst out crying for no particular reason (Well, my friends girlfriend says "I just need a good cry". Why?!. I will never understand but if she hasn't given you a reason for not talking to you, thats very rude but what you have to do is, feel coonfident and confront her. Confidence is the key here because a female can switch the waterworks on and off at the flick of a switch but if she doe's burst out, comfort her. don't just stand there. Cuddle her, give her the reassurance that you are there for her whatever may have happened. If the 'whatever may have happened' is about you, still comfort her but ask what did or are doing to make her feel so upset about you. Girls/Women like alot of affection and pampering.
I'm a seasoned agony uncle so I'm good at helping people out. Really it's there to help people of my age out but I suppose it's good for everyone really...
(I'm 20 by the way...)
Nightcroshi is right in a way too. You do have you're whole life ahead of you but if you truely have real feelings for her and feel that she is 'the one' then, confront her. It's better than bottling up your emotion and torturing yourself thinking about it.
I hope this helps... If there's a question you want to ask me in private, either PM me or add me to your messenger contacts. (spyro24uk@msn.com). Anyone else who's having relasionship troubles can seek advice from me too...
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Post by red.yoshi on Aug 17, 2004 9:06:53 GMT -5
thanks for understanding. its alomost the same story you had. its gona be kinda hard to cofert her if she dosnt pay attention to me...
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Post by PinkFloydYoshi on Aug 17, 2004 10:41:05 GMT -5
It's not that she's not paying attention to you, she's avoiding talking to you to avoid you getting upset for whatever reason she has trouble with you.
Your situation is like a double edged sword. On one side, you can try and get on with your life without thinking about her and either, you'll see her and that'll get you down and start you off thinking about her again. even worse, you see her with someone else and it ruins your day. And on the other side, you can confront her. She will either want to discuss your situation or show you the door. if she wishes to discuss your situation, she can say a variety of different things but she can and will become uncomfortable and burst out crying. Again, comfort her, and let her know that she's with someone who cares about her. Always prepare for bad news. that way, if she does say she want's to call it off, you won't be surprised, you'll be ready for it and you won't burst out crying for a fortnight, lol. If she say's she wishes to give it another go, bonus...
It's strange but I can read alot of women like a book. I don't know how, it's just something I possess...
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Post by red.yoshi on Aug 17, 2004 11:15:03 GMT -5
i dont think she has any trubble with me, i think she might of just secretly dumped me, and ran off with someone else and she dosnt want me to know
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Post by PinkFloydYoshi on Aug 17, 2004 13:48:27 GMT -5
Well, if that's the case, I wouldn't say she was 'the one'. I wouldn't worry about it. It took me a week at the most to get over my troubles and about 3 months ago I had to help a friend get over ending his relationship. That wasn't easy I have to admit but after 3 days, we were talking about other things and she was a thing of the past.
Hang around friends and talk about games or whatever. Talk to me on MSN, i'll bore her out of your mind, lol. just kidding, I'm an interesting person to talk to so you'll lose any thought of her.
If you're that confident that she's run off with someone then, the forget her tactic is the way to go...
but yeah, just add my e-mail address (my previous post) to your MSN contacts list and i'll help you get over it... It's going to be different as i'm doing it over MSN instead of face to face but...
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Post by Aniki on Aug 17, 2004 15:20:52 GMT -5
It was good that you here for us we give a help on this hour, a lot of people " lose the head " when something like that happens. when my sister stopped of dating, she began to do very strange things, until that she was arrested to stole a bicycle at little time (now she's free) know that will always be here for help you when it's necessary... ok? now lift your head and smile, the life didn't finish!  |
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Graedius
New Yoshi
Chiptune Raccoon
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Post by Graedius on Aug 17, 2004 16:37:29 GMT -5
i broke up with my girl friend   A girlfriend at 13.... *sigh* DO ANY OF YOU PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHAT I STAND FOR NOW?! |
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Post by Yosheee on Aug 18, 2004 1:47:15 GMT -5
*sigh*  Women... Women... Women... I remeber Mailtroid once told me I have a ;D/ lever on my back, so if you got to have one too, it might turn out that it works if you try to pull her lever to ;D mode. If she's not ready to talk to you at any case, or she's now with someone else, forget about her, don't let her ruin your life! You can always find someone else. Try to pull the rock she put on your lever to make it stuck on mode. |
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Post by red.yoshi on Aug 18, 2004 23:28:37 GMT -5
YAY SHES BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE LOVE EACHOTHER AGAIN = ) YUSHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
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Post by teh yoshi on Aug 18, 2004 23:48:16 GMT -5
CREEPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!
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Paranoshi
Yoshi
Life's too short for text like this.
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Post by Paranoshi on Aug 18, 2004 23:54:45 GMT -5
Uhm... really, this should not have gone this far....  |
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Post by Yosheee on Aug 19, 2004 1:14:30 GMT -5
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Post by teh yoshi on Aug 19, 2004 1:16:43 GMT -5
BWAHAHAHAHAH!!! XDDDD ;D ;D ;D
Wow... that was totally uncalled for XD.
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Post by PinkFloydYoshi on Aug 19, 2004 8:27:00 GMT -5
Hm. Fair play... What kicked it all off again?
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good grief is this really somthing that should be stated on the bored
