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Post by Yink on Mar 16, 2006 15:37:19 GMT -5
I have a really bad situation here. My mom and dad are seperating...and I have a choice.
1, I can live with my mom.
2, I can live with my dad.
But...I love both of them, and my mom wants to get re-married, but my dad wouldn't let me go online if I stayed with them.
...what would you do? I need some help..
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Post by Green Luigi on Mar 16, 2006 15:53:24 GMT -5
Umm Yink I really feal bad for you... The best advice I think i can give you is follow your heart it kinda sounds cheasy but thats a real had situlation to be in... So is your mom getting married to a nother guy and your mom doesn't have internet?
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Post by DarkBlueYoshi on Mar 16, 2006 15:57:57 GMT -5
OMFG Yinky I'm so sorry to hear this!! >_<''''''''
I honestly don't know what to say because never been in a situation like this before. Don't worry about missing out online, I'd rather see you happy no matter what, even if it means not being able to type to you anymore...because we know how some step parents can be...
Have you met the person that your mom wants to remarry with? If so, does he seem nice?
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Post by moshi on Mar 16, 2006 16:34:31 GMT -5
*hugs Yink* ;-; Just follow by what you think, even if it means no online. Just whatever makes you happy..... *hugs tighter*
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Post by Yink on Mar 16, 2006 16:36:24 GMT -5
But it's so hard...*Cries* My mom's gonna make me call the guy she's marrying Dad...
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Post by Leoshi on Mar 16, 2006 17:58:23 GMT -5
Oh, what a predicament. That's certianly not good, and you have my support on this. I suppose, like what the others have said, that you should do how you see this best. I am afraid I can offer no better advice then this.
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Post by Yoshi on Mar 17, 2006 0:42:41 GMT -5
Nothing short of a disaster.
If re-marriage and being cut off from the internet is going to be the deciding factor, then it depends on your values and how you perceive relationships with your parents. In this case, is losing internet access more troubling than having a stepfather or vice-versa? What is troubling about having a step father to you? What is troubling about losing internet access to you?
[Editor's note: While we await your response I would like to point out to you that instead of making a new thread you may wish to keep this to those who you feel you have the closest connections with. If you must post, then the Yoshi Fan Journal is the thread where you would go to post your experiences.]
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Post by Damian Yoshi on Mar 22, 2006 4:26:09 GMT -5
My parents split when I was like... 2. My mom remarried and my dad's engaged... I just wouldn't call the guy "dad".
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Post by yoshark777 on Mar 22, 2006 4:50:43 GMT -5
Oh my! That's horrible! But I have to agree with Moshi on this, I know its hard but you have to follow your heart on this one.  I'm sorry but this is all I can give you. |
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Post by Gene L.D. Ryoko on Mar 22, 2006 6:55:13 GMT -5
I don't really think a heart can talk
I've already been through this and my mom remarried twice.
just tell your mom you still have respect for your dad and don't want to call him dad. or go with dad and get used to not being able to go to the 'net.
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