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Post by yro Pedward on Sept 24, 2005 11:28:50 GMT -5
After a few posts I read from you guys... I love you all, I really love you all in my heart.
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Post by Yesha on Sept 24, 2005 12:21:02 GMT -5
I already said it before, but I am so sorry for you, I know how its like to lose a family member, but we are here for you if you need us.
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Post by Teo on Sept 24, 2005 15:04:59 GMT -5
I wonder how it is to be without a dad,
My parents are divorced and live thousands of miles from each other, but I don't know what it's like to have one die.
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Post by Yoshifrog on Sept 24, 2005 15:24:12 GMT -5
Aw wow. This must be devistating for you Eddy. I haven't ever expirienced anything like that! Nothing yet has happened to my family while I've been alive- hopefully nothing will for some time. I have no idea how you bad must feel, and me and everyone else will always be there for you. ~Yoshifrog~
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Post by Koshizu on Sept 24, 2005 15:30:29 GMT -5
If you want to talk, you know where we all are.
Rest in peace, Eddy's father.
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Post by Midnight on Sept 24, 2005 15:33:42 GMT -5
...Oh no.
Well,all I can say is that it may be over for your father,but it ain't over for you.You can still find some way to be happy,I hope.
Man,this is weird to say.You're like,my online brother or something...
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Post by yro Pedward on Sept 24, 2005 16:28:22 GMT -5
Here is the story as I promised you all. <Year 2005> From 2months ago, we were still in divorced, from the past 7 years ago we were apart, I live with my mom, and dad was on his own, after my dad was caught cheating on my mom for being with my aunt. She always gave me McDonald meal, but we lost trust to her. She is no longer loyal to our family. But let's get to this year. My dad has moved to our apartment , just 3 doors away from us. He has his buddies, but despite of disrespectful of beers was loaded 3 boxes of 6 beers. He is drunk. But after a night, he asked for my mom to serve him food, but I felt bad for my father. But then, he didn't came back to get the food, he was drunk that night. It was a waste of our time serving him the grump. But then after few days he has picked out food we serve him, and he did take it to his home and eat well. Now, here is the most shocking news ever. He kept each day ask for food and it's alright to us, because he has no job, he's too old to work, but as he stood infront of our door, a heavy wreak of smell passed in our home. And I was gagging for mercy. So we didn't want him in our home like that at all. He hasn't bathed at all, his clothes was peed and doo on, he needs help. But my mom refuses to have him in our home stinking up the place, and it's no joke to laugh about. Next few days, when I got off from school and bus, I saw him laying down next to my apartment door. Few people are there watching him laying down like that, and I was shocked to see him do such a thing to me. The manager kicked him out of his home, he has no place to live. So as my mom came back from work, we took him inside, e wreaks still, and he was placed in our bathroom in a bathtub, demanding him to get showered up. And what we did to his clothes is, we threw them away, no use to wash them, so we offered him new clothes. When it is done, he is out in the street. In the next few days, police called us that our dad was placed in the retirement home, where elderly people was placed there without homes. This is atleast what's best for my dad to be in. Dad called us on the phone and told us how he is doing. He's doing fine, and we visited him there and such. He's doing alright, and abit skinny he got. A month passed, I have a dad's couzin I met a long time ago, called us on the phone that my dad was feeling bad, he's in the hospital! After what I heard, I was half scared I don't want anything bad to him at all. Few weeks later, another report on the phone, he was sent to another hospital in different location. It was a transfer. Until another few weeks passed, another transfer was made. Until then, we are not sure if he's going to be alright... or not. <September 23, 2005> I was very calm in the morning, nothing special, watching Jerry Springer, Maury Povich show and even Judge Mathias. It was all going too well. Then I watched Blind Date, and played Maple Story with my friend Digi and Twiloshi. Happily I played with them. Then I decided to play Unreal Tournament demo to whoop them for awhile. At night, I started my diet, didn't want to end up fat as ever. I got few lines from my hip, not a pretty sight. Around 11 PM my time, I heard my mom talking to my father's couzin on the phone. And devastated news I heard.. he is dead. I was panting and freaking out. My mom called the hospital and she wants the truth of my dad. The result, he is still alive. He's breathing still. They placed my dad breathing tools, as I heard, he refused to eat, I heard he hasn't been eating for days. Goes to show he will be alright and make the full recovery. <Today.> I woke up with a yawn and stretch, brushed my teeth. And playing few games while up. hey, it's what I mostly do. 10:30 AM in the morning, my time. As I was watching Loonatics Unleashed, my mother's friend came over to my room and shut off my TV, and wanting me to stop what was I doing. These are her words, in translation of spanish, "Now, we came here to tell you your dad is not feeling too well. You know how elderly people are when they're really old, they feel bad with full of illness and that's how they were. To tell you this, your dad got tubes everywhere in him to help him breathe, and since he hasn't eaten in days and all, he's dead." Those are her shocking words she told me, and I feel very sad and shocked. She told me the time that happened was 7 AM in the morning. And it is I live with this terrible life. For years of love succuess of having my dad around me, I will always remember him. And I know in my heart he is watching me from beyond. They told me the tale that, my dad will be resurrected, I just cannot just think it's a lie, I mean, god created this world. And I know I will able to see my dad again. Bible says that we will wipe ou tthe rest of the bads, and we the goods will live in a happy paradise, the resurrection for the people will live longer again, and us will never die. This is the full history as we speak. In great memory of my dad. Take care, dad.
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Post by Yink on Sept 24, 2005 16:45:30 GMT -5
I'm so sorry Ed, I know what it feels like to lose someone you love a lot. I know that the YC family will help you through this! PM me if you ever need to talk, alright?
That story was so touching...
Ed, may God be with your family, as well as your dad. *Bows head*
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Post by Dragon on Sept 24, 2005 16:55:08 GMT -5
Man, I'm gone for almost a week and this happens, I'm so sorry, I lost my grandmother about a month ago, I have an idea of what it's like. Well, just know things will be alright, he wouldn't want you to be sad for him, just remember all the good times, those are the best memories. Anyhow, you have me on MSN, if you need to talk, I'm here, my internet's back up and running, so just come to me anytime if you want.
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Post by CoralYoshi on Sept 24, 2005 17:27:06 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, Edward. I wish I could say more, but I really don't know what to say right now. I imagine this must be a hard time for you, especially if you were so close to your father. :\ You and your family is in my thoughts, I hope that you'll all be alright.
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Post by Graedius on Sept 25, 2005 3:13:06 GMT -5
Yeesh, Edward... I'm so sorry to hear all of that, I.. .that must be such an intense pain to cope with... I can't say I relate directly, but... I wish you all of the best, if you ever need anyone to talk to or be with for comfort, you know you always have us...
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Post by yro Pedward on Sept 25, 2005 11:52:44 GMT -5
I want to take this opportunity to thank you all with the comments. Thank you all very much, I'm starting to feel much better now.
***BREAKING NEWS***
What's happening right now that my friends and I are collecting money, but we do not have enough money to pay for the funeral. Here's something more shocking ever. What we going to do, instead, we're putting my dad's dead body in a box, and burn it as well. It is the only option we have to do, but I will always remember him.
For admins and mods, do not lock this thread yet until I say so tonight, I want to see they're comments to this topic. God bless you, dad.
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Post by Swift on Sept 26, 2005 13:18:55 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. I think I know just how you feel. When I read that part about you hearing your mom talking on the phone and your dad was supposedly dead, that made me cry. That's almost exactly how I heard about my dad when he died (November 14th, 2002.)
I don't think there's anything else I can say that someone else has already said. So keep strong, you'll eventually get through this, although it's foolish to say you'll be completely over it someday. Remember to talk to others if you need to, and everyone is here for you.
That's all I can think of to say right now. May your father rest in peace.
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Post by yro Pedward on Sept 26, 2005 21:34:43 GMT -5
You have as well a strong heart like mines, Swift. Thank you for the comment. I officially declare that this topic be closed for now. The rest of you thank you for the comments on this. And dad, take care.
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