Sirghe
Junior Yoshi
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Post by Sirghe on Jul 8, 2006 21:04:45 GMT -5
There are a lot of things in this world that people miss out on, mostly because of the choices they make in life... the one thing that should never be missed, though, is the feeling of love.
Here's my question, if you have fallen in love, what does it feel like to you, and if you haven't found it yet, what do you think it feels like?
Note: Many may be too young to answer...
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Post by Yoshi on Jul 8, 2006 22:13:45 GMT -5
A grueling test of endurance, self control and patience.
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Sirghe
Junior Yoshi
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Post by Sirghe on Jul 8, 2006 22:22:57 GMT -5
A grueling test of endurance, self control and patience. Do you find it to be more of a physical/ mental/ or spiritual feeling? |
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Post by dude on Jul 8, 2006 22:25:47 GMT -5
Hmmm.... I've never fallen i love... And honestly, i don't think i ever will.
I'm just not the type to love other person =/ (besides my family)
Oh, and i feel normal... i think, i'm crazy sometimes >.>
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Post by Yoshi on Jul 8, 2006 22:36:09 GMT -5
A grueling test of endurance, self control and patience. Do you find it to be more of a physical/ mental/ or spiritual feeling? Mostly mental. The self-control also applies to physical. ...I don't do the spiritual thang. |
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Post by plebenshiren on Jul 9, 2006 4:49:13 GMT -5
when i first fell in love it felt like a brick had hit me dead in the stomach
this brick was reality, the fact she had a boyfreind and everyone else who was classed as "good looking" fancied her, so i didn't have a chance.
besides i have better things to do than fall in love.
it's just soooo.........meh- it's complicated
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Post by Cayoshi on Jul 9, 2006 6:54:45 GMT -5
Deja Vu. I was trying my hardest trying to think of what love could feel like, and what it really was while I showered last night. And I saw a board like this. Spooky.
What is love... I'm not quite the right person to pry an answer out of. I'm kinda like Jane in Jane Says.
"I ain't never been in love, I don't know what it is;she only knows if someone wants her..."
That about explains it perfectly. Never in love, anyway. I have love for my posessions, my friends(who I am extremely loyal and devoted to, so much so that my own mother calls them her "fourth children"), and of course, my family. Balancing all of this out is difficult enough, so I'm afraid as of now I have no need for such menial things. Though I've been asked before. But by whom I'd rather not say.[/size]
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Post by Toshi on Jul 9, 2006 9:45:02 GMT -5
Hmm... love...
It feels like a butterfly is in your stomach, fluttering softly and gently like a sigh...
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Post by roshie on Jul 9, 2006 11:34:05 GMT -5
Love is so complicated, as pleban saed, When i was with a girl first timings, it was so shy We didnt even talk to each other barely... But in the other day, it was all kissyface  It feels like, well ... ''when you wake up in a good mood, and have such a good feeling'' feels like that, and you just keep staring at her even if you try to look elsewhere  |
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Post by contention on Jul 9, 2006 11:37:55 GMT -5
This could infact be one of the most difficult answers to ever give on anything, from any type of source. For love in itself is something that is differed from person to person, relying on the factors which make you as yourself. There is something in each of us though that change the tides which influence our standings. Everyone is oppisite in the manner of their thoughts and expression, upon such their minds devulge on this subject in diffrent patterns. From simple little gestures of that "flying" feeling, to more involved upon the matter of "never releasing the hand". Love as what it is can only be explained by what you might think; even when many feel that they have never been aside it, they don't comprehend the facet in which all man must have adoration. For it comes in forms and liquifies upon your emotions and dreams; from illusion to illusion, building your character. It gives you your likes, as much as the dislikes; inbetween, love and hate are nearly the same on the definition behind them. It's within a sense of equilibrium, having two sides of things tossing at the matter; weighing the scales both up and down. For as is love, there must be negative and positive in a relationship in order to know what the bounty of it all means. Those who enter love, thinking it as the possible step to eternal figment fail to understand that there has to be hardship; there must be the hammer upon the nail, the dents in the wall. What makes something perfect, is not that it doesn't change; it's that in which changes and still remains intact from what it began as. Love is just as inevitable as death, as death shall consume you love will eventually take hold of your every possesion and thought among the masses.
We all adore something in our lives, be it from our favorite items to a person. All the same though, the meaning behind it is developed in what we feel; falling into such is merely opening your heart to new gains. Love treats you in an enigmatic passion, giving you the toss and turns of any Rollercoaster. Bearing that new meaning of "Love is like a Rollercoaster", but all the while the ride must go up as it will eventually fall down. It's something so many misunderstand and can't grasp, when something goes wrong they feel that all is lost. Without strife, you can never gain because you don't know what mistakes are. To much of something makes the man brittle, therefore to toughen the skins, the strides of negative hands must make their touch. Falling into the arms of another may seem like something simple, but they can do the same as choke you in either way. This is how love and hate are nearly the same; for when you love someone it seems their name gets to you. It's that title which won't seem to leave your lips, won't seem to escape your conscience. You can't help but let it control you, make it crack you down under it's burden. Hate, for it eats away at your thoughts; taking what was yours and putting it under the item that you do disdain. Together the two might be oppisites, but their influence upon your mind and takes are quite opinionated upon yourself.
At times many question the meaning of love, for they think they find someone and are eventually knocked back. It makes them rush in agony, that fear of defeat; but none realize the truth to falling in love and losing it. Such makes you stronger, it allows you to know what to do and what not to do. It takes many trips and slips in relationships to finally find that one which you can keep. All seem to let an "ending" take form of their lives, but it must be caught that in truth this has to occur. For we use our mistakes in order for experience, and in that experience we know what to say and how to say it; we avoid the wrongs that have occured and continue onward. None are alone upon this plain, and love is something that can come in more than one form. From a type of feeling to your material belongings, all the way to another which stands before you. It's all the same but motioned diffrently, debated by all men; that feeling which makes everyone show the true side of their face. To hold another, and to give everything you can unto their sleeves; where their beating hearts manifest and rapture. There is no man who can define the word of love, or even come to sight it's true ambitions. Only we can decide what it may be, upon who we are; tis our own choices that we must form, that we need to create and glide within ourselves.
It's a challange, but it's a gift; it's wrapped in foils, foils to scratch the skin; dainted in pieces and paintings, that of which slurs the scene; it's as crystal as the finding, as fragile as our sanctity; it's the gravestone in the meadow, it's the death that lies beneath. Love is two sides of everything, and can never be placed upon the good or bads of life. Depending on yourself it forms, to give you what you feel. All misintrepret it, while others know what's real. Everyone must feel it, you can't go through life mentioning on how it has never happened to you nor never will. For you can't always spot it when it occurs; everything is diffrent in these plains. From the way you think to the sights you view. This sense of Adore, this aroma it gives is upon your own nose, that scent you can taste the flavor of. We all find it diffrent, from that sore twist in the gut, to the need to be patient as said. For as humans we are united by flesh, not by inner thought; tis that which gives us our originality and the beliefs that we share so globally. The definition seems to be abused today, as that recognized with "Kisses, candy, hearts, and at least the sensual touch". Love in itself can be everything, from having someone beside you; to knowing they are there; to wanting to guide that in your hand; the need to give all that is within yourself. Love is not fully based on sexuality, it's mention is placed in your heart. The sacrifices you would make to establish the pillars of the name, to give something to that of which you care for.
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Post by Melon Yoshi on Jul 9, 2006 11:54:10 GMT -5
Great quote: Love is like a a box of chocolates, you don't know what one your going to get.
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Post by Cayoshi on Jul 9, 2006 12:40:16 GMT -5
Very much so. There are times in the world when someone may spark a small interest within you, eventually spreading as you hang around them. Though a part of a conversation may bring up a phrase such as "My girlfriend an I go there a lot", or "I need to call my girlfriend."
And that ends it for the sensible.
However, some people have gone a step too far; they simply must have this person as their own. They would be willing to do anything, even sabotage or put their own life in danger. These people on the wrong path know deep in the back of their mind that it would never work; yet they hardly ever think that, as they refuse to accept it. Thus plummeting into deeper love;deeper peril. Though sometimes, these people remain victorious, and fill in for a dumped person.
Though frankly, the odds are against you. I myself have never experienced this tangled emotion. The only love I've ever known, and the only one I hope to know, is loyalty. Keep each friend for their individual skills; each one means something to you. If they didn't, they wouldn't have ever been your friend.
Heh.
I guess I do know a little about love.[/size]
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Post by Toshi on Jul 9, 2006 12:47:48 GMT -5
Great quote: Love is like a a box of chocolates, you don't know what one your going to get. So that wasn't taken from... "Life is like a box of chocolates, you'll never know which one you'll get" from Forrest Gump? |
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Post by Twi on Jul 9, 2006 12:54:18 GMT -5
Evidently not
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Post by Lord of the Dance on Jul 9, 2006 13:20:45 GMT -5
Very much so. There are times in the world when someone may spark a small interest within you, eventually spreading as you hang around them. Though a part of a conversation may bring up a phrase such as "My girlfriend an I go there a lot", or "I need to call my girlfriend."
And that ends it for the sensible. [/size][/quote] Bah, that happened to me with a few guys. I usually like them for a while, but then they do something that really hurts me and I drop it. Love is extremely confusing. I can't really describe it. I've felt love in a few ways, and each time it was extremely different. |
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Post by Yink on Jul 9, 2006 13:57:49 GMT -5
Love is love.
I think it's a wonderful thing if you handle it the right way and find someone that you know won't screw it up. Just listen to the song "Average Man" by Reel Big Fish. It kinda tells you all you need to know.
Although, I assume you know why it's called a "crush" if you have one right? It could crush you if you don't handle it the right way, or if the one you love is well, not true to what they say. Hey, I'm pretty young, I might not even know what Love is yet. Many people say that people under 18 don't know what love is like. That's probably true in some ways, but, can't you say that you love someone? And yes, I mean not a member of your family or a friend. Someone very special. There's someone out there for everyone.
At least, that's just what I believe. ^^;
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Post by Brute on Jul 10, 2006 1:10:38 GMT -5
To me it feels like another chapter in your life has just begun. Like you have another thing in life to care for and comfort along with your family and friends. Believe me when I say I have indeed felt what love feels like, but sadly it had to end. When you do start a relationship it will be really awesome at the beginning but then it will either go uphill or downhill from there. Yes there will be some times when relationships do go up and down but in the end, if you work it all out with no problem then it will be all uphill from there cuz you know now how to go through the tough times in life.
I always see the commercials for the E-Harmony website and I sometimes think that its a phony, but yet it may be a helpful thing to have in starting a relationship with with the person of your dreams. Like Yink said there is always that awesome someone out there no matter where they or you live. There is one song that I sing at my church all the time that i think is vetty true called "Love Never Fails." Love is patient, Love is Kind, Love is not jealous or rude. ^^
I guess thats all I have to say. ;D
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Post by Strangie on Jul 10, 2006 1:54:55 GMT -5
Here, I've got a catch all answer for everything related to this subject.
Love Stinks. Don't do it! It only brings you pain.
How 'bout them apples? Yeah, I'm cynical, put a sock in it. >_>
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Post by Twi on Jul 10, 2006 2:46:56 GMT -5
Here, I've got a catch all answer for everything related to this subject. Love Stinks. Don't do it! It only brings you pain. How 'bout them apples? Yeah, I'm cynical, put a sock in it. >_> I know Strangie is a cynical bastard, but to an extent I agree. You may feel in love but 95% of the time, it'll come back and give you a slap in the ace with a wet salmon. If you're lucky enough to find love in the 5% of the time, hold on to it and never let go. If you do, you'll regret it. |
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Post by roshie on Jul 10, 2006 3:34:10 GMT -5
[quote author=twilightyoshi board=general thread=1152410685 post=How 'bout them apples? Yeah, I'm cynical, put a sock in it. >_>[/quote] I know Strangie is a cynical bastard, but to an extent I agree.[/quote] I agree that stragie is kinda of a bastard  He really is a negative person in sometimes But in a good way *pokes strangie* |
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