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Post by Mailtroid on Sept 2, 2005 7:36:17 GMT -5
Argh..maybe I should let everyone know that I wont have all too much time to come here and check regularly. 'Cause I got to prepare some dossiers to apply for a job. Therefore I sometimes forget to check. That's why I want others to help here too! XD Anyway, need to go back to work. And sorry again for all the trouble I maybe caused. Now, help help help help! XD
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Post by PinkFloydYoshi on Sept 2, 2005 13:36:27 GMT -5
I know it's not my place, but I would like to mention... Life is... tragically short. And mortal, too... and no matter what anyone thinks or beleives that they think, everyone is stll truly uncertain ofwhat comes after... in this one life you live, do with it the best you can, enjoy it, and never be afraid of such things... I was really afraid of taking action with the one I love, very... it took me so long as to give a hug -- but after I mustered the courage, the outcome was far better. I say, try to overcome your fear -- if the outcome is good, then it may be the best thingthat happened to you -- if the outcome is not pleasurable, then you will at least be out of the uncertain rut. It's a shame not everyone has the ability to get out there, and acheive their highest ambition, or get a girlfriend/boyfriend you can class as 'The one'. The way to look at it, is not to look at it, for the most un-anticipated things happen at times you'd never expect it. This coming from someone who's been single for 3 years. I feel as you do Contention. Me and Nat could've got on for eternity, but after she moved away, it became costly to go over there, and for her to get to me. Taxi either way, Cannock, West Midlands to Kiddiminster. It was then we decided to call it a day until she moved back, and then we could start again, and all would be happy families. It never came, and she has no intention of getting back with me, after she does come back, if she does. She's already got someone else, and a little child also. Yes, that was quite the distressing day. I just sat in the local nightclub at the bar, drinking myself silly. I guess you could say that is how I get over finding out something like that. Better than smashing my room up, or someone in my way. Contention. Look at it this way. It's near to impossible to fall in love with someone in school, and keep to the relasionship for many years after (But as said previously, with enough determination, anything can be acheived). Try not to get too involved, because the pain will just be too great when she decides it's time, or she just dumps you straight off. I keep telling a certain friend of mine something similar, yet he never seems to listen because he's just so dependant on another woman being with him. If you can get through life knowing you're not dependant on another woman/man being there in times of need, you're a better person than most. After my friend was dumped the first time by his current, and soon to marry woman, he was absolutely distraught. He'a also, sadly the person who would be willing to take his life in the event that it all gets too much. The thing I can't belive, is that after that, he got back together with her, and 2 months later, decided to inform me he was getting married to this same woman (Yes, I was banging my head off the desk in disbeleif by now). If she has the ability to dump once, she can do it a second time. Marrage won't stop that. Here's a good quote I made up during the day I was telling him not to marry. "25 pound to get married. 1,000 pound to get a divorce. Where's the logic?" Getting back to the topic, Jump into a relasionship if you truely belive the both of you can make it happen. Without this 'pact', the relashonship won't last. Expect the odd argument (Yes, arguments rage during sucessful relashonships, belive it or not). I can talk about the ups and downs of relashonships all day, so feel free to give me a bell if you're ever in need of advice. |
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Post by yoshicreator on Sept 5, 2005 13:09:12 GMT -5
I'm always free to talk to you about your problems in person (well as close as you can get) through google messenger, AIM, or MSN Messenger. Just PM me here on Yoshi's Corner and I will add you if you provide me your email adress. I have been doing Yahoo, but right now I have it uninstalled but as soon as I get it back up you can talk to me there as well.
I can talk about whatever you want and just be here if you want help so don't hesitate to add me if you feel like you want/need to!
Alrighty then...
~*YC*~
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